How to keep good relationship between woman and man is we have to understand each other. We must be nice to each other.Sometimes as a man is difficult to accept that women are better, smarter, more able to manage time and more romantic.A word can say everything. We can said it or whisper it in her ear. There are several word we can say to woman, like:
"You are really smart"
With adore his ability, it shown that we know her personality is as good as her physical. appearance. This word makes woman feel appreciated and doesn't makes her as a sex object. It means we also respect her as a good woman. Woman love a gentleman. And this time to give her something different by this word. Don't hesitate to admit it.
"You make my life complete"
With this word mean that she is the only woman in our relationship. Every woman in this world want to hear this word. For a man this word mean that he also accept her with all his heart fully the presence of their partner.
"I want to spend my life with you"
This word has deep meaning. It usually said by a man who want to bring the relationship in the next level, seriously than before. Better prepare yourself facing the consequences of your statements. You can say this word if you feel that she is your soul mate. Similar word we can say is "I do not want to share my life with others."
"You're prettier than other woman"
This is magical word, to increase your partner's ego. This is the best ratings for her. I recommend for you that don't use this word very often. She may think you are lying.
"You're great in bed"
Woman likes this word when our position in bed. It mean she knew exactly how to satisfy her partner in bed. By giving a statement about her performance in bed, she also rewarded by all her effort and all maneuvers she did in bed.
"How was your day?"
It looks common word we usually said to our friend. When we ask the question to her, it like we want to know about her daily activities start from in the morning until at night. But we can get the positive thing about this question. like we give much attention to her and ready to hear all her stories. Being a good listener is good in relationship.
"You're my best friend"
As we know a man can't life without friends. Commonly a man like to share some story or problem to his friend. When he said this word to his partner it means he found the place to share which suitable for him.
"I can't believe how sexy you look!"
This word mean that you think she is very interesting. Actually a lot of women like to be praised such of this word. And the good side is it could increase the confidence between couples.
"You're a great mother"
Married and have a baby is a dream for woman. But many of them also doubt,whether they are able to be a wife or not. And for married woman this word is give support to her as a mother.
26 July 2011
Great Ways to Say I Love You
Saying you love her
Here are a few tips to get you started:
* Read her poetry
* Warn up the car for her on cold mornings
* Hold her hand
* Be understanding
* Listen
* Let her cry
* Remember your anniversary
* Make her dinner
* Water her plants
* Take out the garbage without being asked
* Take her car to the car wash
* Put the toilet seat down
* Don't mention her weight gain
* Compliment her on how she looks
* Let her sleep late
* Let her go out with her friends
* Make the morning coffee/tea
* Clean the floor
* Rub her feet
* Go shopping with her
* Make her a card
* Write "I love you" on a post note and stick it on the refrigerator
* Say You are sorry
* Pray for her
* Watch her favorite show instead of yours
* Forget the TV and turn out all the lights and just cuddle together.
* Slip her favorite candy into her purse.
* Do the dishes
* Tell her how glad you are to be married to her
* Be her best friend
* Send her flowers for no reason
My love as deep; the more I give to thee,
The more I have, both are infinite.
~William Shakespeare
A bell is no bell 'til you ring it,
A song is no song 'til you sing it,
And love in your heart
Wasn’t put there to stay -
Love isn’t love
'Til you give it away.
~Oscar Hammerstein, Sound of Music, "You Are Sixteen (Reprise)"
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Here are a few tips to get you started:
* Read her poetry
* Warn up the car for her on cold mornings
* Hold her hand
* Be understanding
* Listen
* Let her cry
* Remember your anniversary
* Make her dinner
* Water her plants
* Take out the garbage without being asked
* Take her car to the car wash
* Put the toilet seat down
* Don't mention her weight gain
* Compliment her on how she looks
* Let her sleep late
* Let her go out with her friends
* Make the morning coffee/tea
* Clean the floor
* Rub her feet
* Go shopping with her
* Make her a card
* Write "I love you" on a post note and stick it on the refrigerator
* Say You are sorry
* Pray for her
* Watch her favorite show instead of yours
* Forget the TV and turn out all the lights and just cuddle together.
* Slip her favorite candy into her purse.
* Do the dishes
* Tell her how glad you are to be married to her
* Be her best friend
* Send her flowers for no reason
My love as deep; the more I give to thee,
The more I have, both are infinite.
~William Shakespeare
A bell is no bell 'til you ring it,
A song is no song 'til you sing it,
And love in your heart
Wasn’t put there to stay -
Love isn’t love
'Til you give it away.
~Oscar Hammerstein, Sound of Music, "You Are Sixteen (Reprise)"
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Saying you love him
Try some of these tips to tell him you love him.
* Care about what has happened in his day
* Pretend to think his old car is awesome
* Make him laugh
* Take him out to dinner
* Listen
* Tell him what is wrong
* Run an errand he hates to do
* Laugh at the jokes you've heard 25 times
* Believe in him
* Write the words "I Love You" on the steamy mirror when he's in the shower.
* Buy yourself something sexy for him
* Give him a saturday off.
* Buy him that "toy" he wants
* Let him have "the guys" over
* Laugh with him, not at him
* Clean out his car
* Buy his favorite ice cream instead of yours
* Leave a note in a pocket of his pants
* Buy him his favorite candy
* Let him choose a television show
* Buy him a CD of his favorite music
* Share his dreams
* Hold his hand
* Massage his neck and back
* Make him breakfast in bed
* Compliment him on how nice he looks
* Warm his bath towel for him
* Buy him a bottle of his favorite cologne
* Give him a manicure
* Bake his favorite dessert
* Give him "space" when he needs it
Sharing Love Together
* Go for long walks together
* Lie on the floor together in front of a roaring fire.
* Just sit and hold each other
* Sing together
* Make a date for lunch
* Share a juicy red apple
* Do something silly and just be you
* Hold hands in public
* Share breakfast in bed
* Go on a picnic
* Take a bicycle ride
* Visit a spa and treat yourselves to a "couple massage"
* Watch the moon (sky) together and gaze at the stars
* Go on a date frequently
* Staying two separate people enriches you both, and makes your sharing all the more meaningful. At the same time, sharing time, intimacy, spaces, money and more, keeps marriages and relationships strong.
There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.
~ Mother Teresa
Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low.
~ Henry Ward Beecher
You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love.
~ Henry Drummond
All love that has not friendship for its base,
is like a mansion built upon the sand.
~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox
The only gift is a portion of thyself.
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
The best portion of a good man's life,
His little, nameless, unremembered acts,
Of kindness and of love.
~ William Wordsworth
Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.
~ Robert Browning
Find the person who will love you because of your differences and
not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.
~ Leo Buscaglia
Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love.
~ Lao Tzu
Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
~ Elbert Hubbard
Try some of these tips to tell him you love him.
* Care about what has happened in his day
* Pretend to think his old car is awesome
* Make him laugh
* Take him out to dinner
* Listen
* Tell him what is wrong
* Run an errand he hates to do
* Laugh at the jokes you've heard 25 times
* Believe in him
* Write the words "I Love You" on the steamy mirror when he's in the shower.
* Buy yourself something sexy for him
* Give him a saturday off.
* Buy him that "toy" he wants
* Let him have "the guys" over
* Laugh with him, not at him
* Clean out his car
* Buy his favorite ice cream instead of yours
* Leave a note in a pocket of his pants
* Buy him his favorite candy
* Let him choose a television show
* Buy him a CD of his favorite music
* Share his dreams
* Hold his hand
* Massage his neck and back
* Make him breakfast in bed
* Compliment him on how nice he looks
* Warm his bath towel for him
* Buy him a bottle of his favorite cologne
* Give him a manicure
* Bake his favorite dessert
* Give him "space" when he needs it
Sharing Love Together
* Go for long walks together
* Lie on the floor together in front of a roaring fire.
* Just sit and hold each other
* Sing together
* Make a date for lunch
* Share a juicy red apple
* Do something silly and just be you
* Hold hands in public
* Share breakfast in bed
* Go on a picnic
* Take a bicycle ride
* Visit a spa and treat yourselves to a "couple massage"
* Watch the moon (sky) together and gaze at the stars
* Go on a date frequently
* Staying two separate people enriches you both, and makes your sharing all the more meaningful. At the same time, sharing time, intimacy, spaces, money and more, keeps marriages and relationships strong.
There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.
~ Mother Teresa
Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low.
~ Henry Ward Beecher
You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love.
~ Henry Drummond
All love that has not friendship for its base,
is like a mansion built upon the sand.
~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox
The only gift is a portion of thyself.
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
The best portion of a good man's life,
His little, nameless, unremembered acts,
Of kindness and of love.
~ William Wordsworth
Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.
~ Robert Browning
Find the person who will love you because of your differences and
not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.
~ Leo Buscaglia
Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love.
~ Lao Tzu
Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
~ Elbert Hubbard
Love Styles
Love Styles: A Brief Background
The six love styles was originally developed by John Lee (1973, 1988), he referred to these love styles as "colors of love", and also wrote a book on this theory. The six love styles are: Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pagma, Mania, and Agape. Later Clyde Hendrick and Susan Hendrick, expanded on this theory. They have found that men tend to be more ludic, whereas women tend to be storgic and pragmatic. Mania is often the first love style teenager’s display. Relationships based on similar love styles were found to last longer. People often look for people with the same love style as themselves for a relationship.
Eros Lovers: Beauty and Sexuality
The erotic lover focuses more on beauty and physical attraction, sometimes to point where they exclude other qualities people may find more important and lasting. You could say that they live in a fantasy world. They often see marriage as a lasting honeymoon, and see sex as the ultimate aesthetic experience. The erotic lover also has a idealized image of beauty that cannot be attainable in reality. Consequently, the erotic lover often feels empty, and they are also sensitive to imperfections of their partner or the ones they love. An erotic lover can be perceived as a hopeless romantic. Those of other love styles may see erotic lovers as unrealistic, or trapped in a fantasy. The advantage of erotic love is the sentimentality of it. It is very relaxing to the person doing it. The disadvantage is the inevitableness of the decay in attraction, and the danger of living in a fantasy world. In its extreme, eros can resemble naive
Ludus: Entertainment and Excitement
Ludic lovers are players. More interested in quantity than quality of relationships, they want to have as much fun as possible, choose their partners by playing the field, and quickly recover from break-ups. For them, love is not to be taken too seriously and emotions should be kept in check. Ludic lovers are also very self-controlled, they always find the need to manage love, rather than let love be in control. Perhaps because of this need to control love, some researchers have found that ludic lovers are linked to sexual aggression. The ludic lover will also only maintain a partner for as long as he/she is interesting or amusing. Research has shown that people who score high on ludic love are more likely to engage in "outside-the-couple" dating and sex than those who score low on ludus.
Storge Love: Peace and Slowness
Storge love lacks passion and intensity, Storgic lovers set out not to find a love, but to find a compatiable relationship with someone they already know and share common interests. Storge love is gradual prossess of unfolding feelings and emotions. At times the storge love can move so slowly it is hard to define where relationship stands. Sex in storge love comes late, and when it does it usually assumes no great importance.
Pragma Lover: Practilality and Tradition
These lovers are practical and seek a relationship that will work. Pragma lovers want compatibility, and a relationship that will satisfy all their needs, desires and wants. They are more concerned with social qualities rather than personal ones; family and background are very important to pagma lovers, who don’t rely so much on feelings as on logic. They view love as a useful relationship, and as a way to make the rest of life easier. They ask questions when choosing a potential partner such as: "Will this person earn a good live?", "Can this person cook?", "Will my family like this person?". Their relationships hardly ever decay , because they choose their partners very carefully and emphasize similarities, they also have realistic romantic expectations.
Mania Lovers: Elation and Depression
Mania lovers are characterized as having extreme highs and extreme lows. The manic lover loves intensely, and at the time worries intensely about the loss of the love. For this, the manic lover may experience fear that prevents them from enjoying relationships. With little reason, they may also experience extreme jealously. Manic love is obsessive; the manic lover has to possess the beloved completely. In return, the manic lover wishes to be possessed, to be loved intensely. They tend to feel that their poor self esteem with only improve with intense love. Their sense of self-worth comes from being loved, rather than from inner satisfaction. Because love is so important, danger signs in a relationship are often ignored; the manic lover believes that if there is love, then nothing else matters.
Agape Lovers: Compassion and Selflessness
Agape (ah-guh-pay) is a compassionate, egoless, self-giving love. The agapic lover loves even people with whom he or she has no close ties. This lover loves the stranger on the road even though they will probably never meet again. Agape is a spiritual love, offered without concern for personal reward or gain. This lover loves without expecting that the love will be reciprocated. Jesus, Buddha, and Gandhi practiced and preached this unqualified love. In one sense, agape is more a philosophical kind of love than a love that most people have the strength to achieve.
Measurement
Hendrick and Hendrick (1986) developed a self-report questionnaire measure of Lee's love styles, known as the Love Attitudes Scale (LAS). A shortened version of the LAS, presumably for researchers trying to keep their surveys as concise as possible, was later published, and other variations appear to have been used by some researchers. Respondents indicate their level of agreement or disagreement with the LAS items, examples of which include "My partner and I have the right physical 'chemistry'" (Eros) and "Our love is the best kind because it grew out of a long friendship" (Storge).
Which Love Style are you?
After reading this hub and taking the self test, which love style do you fall under?
* Eros Lover
* Ludus Lover
* Storge Lover
* Pagma Lover
* Mania Lover
* Agape Lover
Find Out Which Love Style You Are
INSTRUCTIONS: Pull out a pen and paper and give it a try! Respond to each of the following statements with T if you believe the statement to be a generally accurate representation of your attitudes about love, or with F if you believe the statement does not adequately represent your attitudes about love.
* _____ My lover and I have the right physical “chemistry” between us.
* _____ I feel that my lover and I were meant for each other.
* _____ My lover and I really understand each other.
* _____ I believe that what my lover doesn’t know about me won’t hurt him/her.
* _____ My lover would get upset if he/she knew of some of the things I’ve done with other people.
* _____ When my lover gets too dependent on me, I want to back off a little.
* _____ I expect to always be friends with my lover.
* _____ Our love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious, mystical emotion.
* _____ Our love relationship is the most satisfying because it developed from a good friendship.
* _____ In choosing my lover, I believed it was best to love someone with a similar background.
* _____ An important factor in choosing a partner is whether or not he/she would be a good parent.
* _____ One consideration in choosing my lover was how he/she would reflect on my career.
* _____ Sometimes I get so excited about being in love with my lover that I can’t sleep.
* _____ When my lover doesn’t pay attention to me, I feel sick all over.
* _____ I cannot relax if I suspect that my lover is with someone else.
* _____ I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer.
* _____ When my lover gets angry with me, I still love him/her fully and unconditionally.
* _____ I would endure all things for the sake of my lover.
HOW DID YOU DO? This scale is from Hendrick and Hendrick (1990) and is based on the work of Lee (1976), as is the text’s discussion of the six types of love. The statements refer to the six types of love described in the text: eros, ludus, storge, pragma, mania, and agape. Statements 1–3 are characteristic of the eros lover. If you answered “true” to these statements, you have a strong eros component to your love style; if you answered “false,” you have a weak eros component. Statements 4–6 refer to ludus love, 7–9 to storge love, 10–12 to pragma love, 13–15 to manic love, and 16–18 to agapic love.
The six love styles was originally developed by John Lee (1973, 1988), he referred to these love styles as "colors of love", and also wrote a book on this theory. The six love styles are: Eros, Ludus, Storge, Pagma, Mania, and Agape. Later Clyde Hendrick and Susan Hendrick, expanded on this theory. They have found that men tend to be more ludic, whereas women tend to be storgic and pragmatic. Mania is often the first love style teenager’s display. Relationships based on similar love styles were found to last longer. People often look for people with the same love style as themselves for a relationship.
Eros Lovers: Beauty and Sexuality
The erotic lover focuses more on beauty and physical attraction, sometimes to point where they exclude other qualities people may find more important and lasting. You could say that they live in a fantasy world. They often see marriage as a lasting honeymoon, and see sex as the ultimate aesthetic experience. The erotic lover also has a idealized image of beauty that cannot be attainable in reality. Consequently, the erotic lover often feels empty, and they are also sensitive to imperfections of their partner or the ones they love. An erotic lover can be perceived as a hopeless romantic. Those of other love styles may see erotic lovers as unrealistic, or trapped in a fantasy. The advantage of erotic love is the sentimentality of it. It is very relaxing to the person doing it. The disadvantage is the inevitableness of the decay in attraction, and the danger of living in a fantasy world. In its extreme, eros can resemble naive
Ludus: Entertainment and Excitement
Ludic lovers are players. More interested in quantity than quality of relationships, they want to have as much fun as possible, choose their partners by playing the field, and quickly recover from break-ups. For them, love is not to be taken too seriously and emotions should be kept in check. Ludic lovers are also very self-controlled, they always find the need to manage love, rather than let love be in control. Perhaps because of this need to control love, some researchers have found that ludic lovers are linked to sexual aggression. The ludic lover will also only maintain a partner for as long as he/she is interesting or amusing. Research has shown that people who score high on ludic love are more likely to engage in "outside-the-couple" dating and sex than those who score low on ludus.
Storge Love: Peace and Slowness
Storge love lacks passion and intensity, Storgic lovers set out not to find a love, but to find a compatiable relationship with someone they already know and share common interests. Storge love is gradual prossess of unfolding feelings and emotions. At times the storge love can move so slowly it is hard to define where relationship stands. Sex in storge love comes late, and when it does it usually assumes no great importance.
Pragma Lover: Practilality and Tradition
These lovers are practical and seek a relationship that will work. Pragma lovers want compatibility, and a relationship that will satisfy all their needs, desires and wants. They are more concerned with social qualities rather than personal ones; family and background are very important to pagma lovers, who don’t rely so much on feelings as on logic. They view love as a useful relationship, and as a way to make the rest of life easier. They ask questions when choosing a potential partner such as: "Will this person earn a good live?", "Can this person cook?", "Will my family like this person?". Their relationships hardly ever decay , because they choose their partners very carefully and emphasize similarities, they also have realistic romantic expectations.
Mania Lovers: Elation and Depression
Mania lovers are characterized as having extreme highs and extreme lows. The manic lover loves intensely, and at the time worries intensely about the loss of the love. For this, the manic lover may experience fear that prevents them from enjoying relationships. With little reason, they may also experience extreme jealously. Manic love is obsessive; the manic lover has to possess the beloved completely. In return, the manic lover wishes to be possessed, to be loved intensely. They tend to feel that their poor self esteem with only improve with intense love. Their sense of self-worth comes from being loved, rather than from inner satisfaction. Because love is so important, danger signs in a relationship are often ignored; the manic lover believes that if there is love, then nothing else matters.
Agape Lovers: Compassion and Selflessness
Agape (ah-guh-pay) is a compassionate, egoless, self-giving love. The agapic lover loves even people with whom he or she has no close ties. This lover loves the stranger on the road even though they will probably never meet again. Agape is a spiritual love, offered without concern for personal reward or gain. This lover loves without expecting that the love will be reciprocated. Jesus, Buddha, and Gandhi practiced and preached this unqualified love. In one sense, agape is more a philosophical kind of love than a love that most people have the strength to achieve.
Measurement
Hendrick and Hendrick (1986) developed a self-report questionnaire measure of Lee's love styles, known as the Love Attitudes Scale (LAS). A shortened version of the LAS, presumably for researchers trying to keep their surveys as concise as possible, was later published, and other variations appear to have been used by some researchers. Respondents indicate their level of agreement or disagreement with the LAS items, examples of which include "My partner and I have the right physical 'chemistry'" (Eros) and "Our love is the best kind because it grew out of a long friendship" (Storge).
Which Love Style are you?
After reading this hub and taking the self test, which love style do you fall under?
* Eros Lover
* Ludus Lover
* Storge Lover
* Pagma Lover
* Mania Lover
* Agape Lover
Find Out Which Love Style You Are
INSTRUCTIONS: Pull out a pen and paper and give it a try! Respond to each of the following statements with T if you believe the statement to be a generally accurate representation of your attitudes about love, or with F if you believe the statement does not adequately represent your attitudes about love.
* _____ My lover and I have the right physical “chemistry” between us.
* _____ I feel that my lover and I were meant for each other.
* _____ My lover and I really understand each other.
* _____ I believe that what my lover doesn’t know about me won’t hurt him/her.
* _____ My lover would get upset if he/she knew of some of the things I’ve done with other people.
* _____ When my lover gets too dependent on me, I want to back off a little.
* _____ I expect to always be friends with my lover.
* _____ Our love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious, mystical emotion.
* _____ Our love relationship is the most satisfying because it developed from a good friendship.
* _____ In choosing my lover, I believed it was best to love someone with a similar background.
* _____ An important factor in choosing a partner is whether or not he/she would be a good parent.
* _____ One consideration in choosing my lover was how he/she would reflect on my career.
* _____ Sometimes I get so excited about being in love with my lover that I can’t sleep.
* _____ When my lover doesn’t pay attention to me, I feel sick all over.
* _____ I cannot relax if I suspect that my lover is with someone else.
* _____ I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer.
* _____ When my lover gets angry with me, I still love him/her fully and unconditionally.
* _____ I would endure all things for the sake of my lover.
HOW DID YOU DO? This scale is from Hendrick and Hendrick (1990) and is based on the work of Lee (1976), as is the text’s discussion of the six types of love. The statements refer to the six types of love described in the text: eros, ludus, storge, pragma, mania, and agape. Statements 1–3 are characteristic of the eros lover. If you answered “true” to these statements, you have a strong eros component to your love style; if you answered “false,” you have a weak eros component. Statements 4–6 refer to ludus love, 7–9 to storge love, 10–12 to pragma love, 13–15 to manic love, and 16–18 to agapic love.
Man's Guide To Understanding Women
A Woman's Mind
5 Mistakes Men MakeBig Mistake (1)
The male of the human species have an inbuilt ego booster that from an early age tells them to believe that every female that they encounter in their lifetime, outside of family. Has the Hot's for them, they are irresistible to women and that they can have any woman that they want at the click of their fingers.
The Truth
Women like men, have differing tastes they, contrary to popular belief, don't chase after anything in pants, they may like your smile, your eyes or even your butt or they may not like a single thing about you.
Big Mistake (2)
Men are bad at reading the signs and it can lead to a lot of confusion when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex, body language is not our strong point and sometimes it causes us to make complete and utter fools of ourselves.
The Truth
Admit it guys we have all been there at some point, a girl has looked at us and we have fallen into the trap, "she wants me" is our first thought and if she actually happens to say hello we automatically think that she wants to jump into bed with us.
The plain truth is that the woman in question has noticed you staring at her for the last ten minutes and has glanced back at you thinking to herself "why is that creep staring at me".
If she does approach you and says hello, it usually means that she might be interested in you but would like to get to know a little bit more about you, it does not mean that she wants to jump into your bed.
Big Mistake (3)
Men often get the wrong idea of what a girl wants because of the way that she dresses.
The truth
A woman is allowed to dress any way she pleases, if she is wearing a skin tight top with a plunging neckline and a short skirt with stockings and high-heeled shoes, It is her choice, it is not an open invitation for us to jump on her bones for a night of lust and passion.
Big Mistake (4)
Men are under the assumption that because you buy a woman flowers and chocolates, take her for a meal and a few drinks that she will sleep with you at the end of the night, they feel that because they have treated the woman to a good night out they deserve a reward at the end of it.
The Truth
Women go on a date to get to know you better, they want to learn more about you and find out what makes you tick, they want to find out if there could be a future with you.
You may get a kiss on the cheek at the end of the date or even a full blown Frenchie, but it will not be until later in the relationship when she is sure that you could be the real deal that you will reap the rewards of your patience.
Remember men the old saying "to assume makes an ASS of U and ME".
Big Mistake (5)
Men like to embellish the truth a little, telling little lies to try and impress the girl, lies like saying that they are the manager where they work when they in reality are only a labourer on the work floor and saying that they earn 3 times more than they actually do.
The Truth
Unless you are only looking for a one night stand, your lies will be caught out as the relationship deepens, honesty is the best policy when considering entering into a full blown relationship, because your lies could come back to haunt you when you lose the best thing that ever happened to you through them.
Respect
The Truth About Women
From learning about ourselves first we can then go on to learn about women, the above are just a few examples of mistakes that we as men make, the list could go on forever but most of the things that we learn about women is from life experience and common sense.
The real truth about women is that they are human beings just like we men are, they love, they hate, they laugh, they cry, they talk, they listen they have feelings, women are not toys or play things to be used and abused, they are our equal in every way, what we as males fail to do is respect women for who they are not what they look like and the most important thing that we men need to get through our heads is that when a woman says no she means No.
When we learn to respect women the world is our oyster.
Ways To Make A Girl Smile
Making A Girl Feel Special
• Girls love it when you hug them from behind and whisper into their ear.
• Kissing in the rain (while holding an umbrella over you)
• Girls like when you pick them up and they find it attractive
• Don't be afraid to take charge and be the one to make plans
• Kissing on the forehead is another loving gesture that girls love
• Play with her hair and massage the back of her head
• Leave a note on the refrigerator or coffee machine in the morning, so that she smiles when she wakes up to start her day. Write something motivating, supportive and loving.
• Make the bed in the morning and leave a note on her bed that she will see later, this will surprise her as it shows your going the extra mile.
• Surprise her with breakfast in bed, this would work especially well if you know what her favorite breakfast is. For example: My girlfriend loves blueberry pancakes.
• Before work or class, make her lunch first thing in the morning and put some of her favorite goodies in it.
• If she has pets, get her pets little toys. It shows that you care and she'll love you for it. This is especially true if she is a dog lover.
• Record her favorite shows for her as a surprise, of course you need a DVR or Tivo to do this though.
• Make her a bracelet with supplies that you picked out yourself. You can find supplies at a hobby store.
• Let her hold the remote control when you watch TV.
• Plan a spontaneous picnic and surprise her with the plans when you wake up in the morning. Just be sure to check the weather first.
• Set your picture on her phone so that your face comes up when you call her.
• Plan a part of the day where the two of you can take pictures of each other. This is a great idea if you don't have pictures together, but its more of a couples thing.
• Go on a date to her favorite restaurant.
• Plan the occasional dress up, fancy date. Girls love to dress up.
• Buy her favorite candy for her, this is especially a great idea if you plan on renting a movie or going to a movie.
• Take her on some surprise getaway for the day, whether its the mountains or driving to another city.
• Keep things interesting, don't get stuck in the same old routine.
• If she loves chocolate, surprise her with a giant candy bar. One time I saw this giant candy bar for sale at sams club, it was huge, in fact it took up its own spot in the car seat. This will truly surprise her, just make sure you have a place to put all the extra chocolate.
• Wash her car for her, especially before an important event or at the beginning of the week.
• If you have pets or if she does, plan on going for a walk together to walk the dogs.
• If 4th of July is coming up, see if you can find a baseball game that is going on in your area. Chances are there will likely be lots of fireworks after the show.
• Show her that you trust her by asking for advice.
• Be a good listener and avoid responding with 2 word answers that make it sound like you weren't listening.
• If it snows outside, in the morning - wake her up and let her know that your gonna have a snowball fight. Then let her win.
• Hold an umbrella for her when its raining.
• If it was snowing - build a snowman together and personalize it with your clothes.
• Hold her hand in public.
• Smile when you talk to her - making it seem exciting.
• Find out what her favorite perfume is without her knowing, and surprise her by getting it for her.
• Make her her own personalized CD or playlist.
• If you play an instrument, play a song for her or play a song and dedicate it to her.
• Make her a drink that she is sure to love because it has all her favorite ingredients, and name the drink after her.
• Surprise her by renting a move and make some snack for during the movie. Even if its popcorn.
• If shes in college - call her and offer to pick her up after class.
• If shes in college - offer to drive her to class.
• Pick her up from class and have a smoothie ready for her, this is a great idea for a hot summer day.
• Make it a point to answer her texts in a timely manner, it shows that you make her a priority.
• When your in public with her, treat her like she is the only girl in the world. Don't get caught with your eyes wondering.
• If there is an amusement park in your area, plan a day where the two of you can go to an amusement park.
• If she needs to finish some shopping, offer to go with her and make it fun.
• Get her a card and personalize it, even if there is no special occasion.
• Buy her her favorite flowers, this could take some research if your in a new relationship with a girl.
• Make her a special dinner that she is sure to love. Make it a surprise.
• Call her in the middle of the day just to tell her that you love her and make her feel appreciated.
• Complement her when she talks to you or offers her opinion. Make her feel smart and let her know that you value her opinion.
• Girls love it when you hug them from behind and whisper into their ear.
• Kissing in the rain (while holding an umbrella over you)
• Girls like when you pick them up and they find it attractive
• Don't be afraid to take charge and be the one to make plans
• Kissing on the forehead is another loving gesture that girls love
• Play with her hair and massage the back of her head
• Leave a note on the refrigerator or coffee machine in the morning, so that she smiles when she wakes up to start her day. Write something motivating, supportive and loving.
• Make the bed in the morning and leave a note on her bed that she will see later, this will surprise her as it shows your going the extra mile.
• Surprise her with breakfast in bed, this would work especially well if you know what her favorite breakfast is. For example: My girlfriend loves blueberry pancakes.
• Before work or class, make her lunch first thing in the morning and put some of her favorite goodies in it.
• If she has pets, get her pets little toys. It shows that you care and she'll love you for it. This is especially true if she is a dog lover.
• Record her favorite shows for her as a surprise, of course you need a DVR or Tivo to do this though.
• Make her a bracelet with supplies that you picked out yourself. You can find supplies at a hobby store.
• Let her hold the remote control when you watch TV.
• Plan a spontaneous picnic and surprise her with the plans when you wake up in the morning. Just be sure to check the weather first.
• Set your picture on her phone so that your face comes up when you call her.
• Plan a part of the day where the two of you can take pictures of each other. This is a great idea if you don't have pictures together, but its more of a couples thing.
• Go on a date to her favorite restaurant.
• Plan the occasional dress up, fancy date. Girls love to dress up.
• Buy her favorite candy for her, this is especially a great idea if you plan on renting a movie or going to a movie.
• Take her on some surprise getaway for the day, whether its the mountains or driving to another city.
• Keep things interesting, don't get stuck in the same old routine.
• If she loves chocolate, surprise her with a giant candy bar. One time I saw this giant candy bar for sale at sams club, it was huge, in fact it took up its own spot in the car seat. This will truly surprise her, just make sure you have a place to put all the extra chocolate.
• Wash her car for her, especially before an important event or at the beginning of the week.
• If you have pets or if she does, plan on going for a walk together to walk the dogs.
• If 4th of July is coming up, see if you can find a baseball game that is going on in your area. Chances are there will likely be lots of fireworks after the show.
• Show her that you trust her by asking for advice.
• Be a good listener and avoid responding with 2 word answers that make it sound like you weren't listening.
• If it snows outside, in the morning - wake her up and let her know that your gonna have a snowball fight. Then let her win.
• Hold an umbrella for her when its raining.
• If it was snowing - build a snowman together and personalize it with your clothes.
• Hold her hand in public.
• Smile when you talk to her - making it seem exciting.
• Find out what her favorite perfume is without her knowing, and surprise her by getting it for her.
• Make her her own personalized CD or playlist.
• If you play an instrument, play a song for her or play a song and dedicate it to her.
• Make her a drink that she is sure to love because it has all her favorite ingredients, and name the drink after her.
• Surprise her by renting a move and make some snack for during the movie. Even if its popcorn.
• If shes in college - call her and offer to pick her up after class.
• If shes in college - offer to drive her to class.
• Pick her up from class and have a smoothie ready for her, this is a great idea for a hot summer day.
• Make it a point to answer her texts in a timely manner, it shows that you make her a priority.
• When your in public with her, treat her like she is the only girl in the world. Don't get caught with your eyes wondering.
• If there is an amusement park in your area, plan a day where the two of you can go to an amusement park.
• If she needs to finish some shopping, offer to go with her and make it fun.
• Get her a card and personalize it, even if there is no special occasion.
• Buy her her favorite flowers, this could take some research if your in a new relationship with a girl.
• Make her a special dinner that she is sure to love. Make it a surprise.
• Call her in the middle of the day just to tell her that you love her and make her feel appreciated.
• Complement her when she talks to you or offers her opinion. Make her feel smart and let her know that you value her opinion.
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